Absolutely Superb! That's the two words
that pop to mind to describe Katherine Zotovich's new books My Memory Maker and
the companion journal Making Memories. Katherine, a mother of 4, and an
elementary teacher for 23 years, understands the unique challenges that come with helping
a child cope when Grandpa or Grandma develops Alzheimer's.
A caregiver herself, Katherine's mother
was diagnosed with "AD" 10 years ago. And becoming a caregiver while caring for
her own children, made Katherine very much aware of how little there was of written
material to explain to children about this disease. And so, My Memory Maker was created.
This exceptional book is simply
outstanding. Not only can a child create memories of their loved one, but they can also
write down their thoughts, draw pictures and develop a "journal" that helps them
cope. There is page after page of things for them to do. Fill out a family tree, draw
pictures of themselves when they are happy, sad, angry or confused. It guides them gently
through the many changes of this disease, while all the while encouraging them to confront
what "hurts", in this unique and stimulating way.
This is not a book that will frighten
kids, it's designed in such a way that it draws on the childs creativities while enhancing
the relationship this child has with their granny or grand-dad. It's also a way for the
child to talk to mom and dad about something that may be concerning them.
As for Making Memories, (the
companion journal) this is another novel way for caregivers to cope. Encouraging you to
explore your own issues, problems and hurts, this is the book for mommies and daddies to
write in too. Not only does she offer excellent tips and recommendations, there are areas
where you can: reflect on your own thoughts and memories, confront your anger & guilt
and of course, include photographs that will create a keepsake that's distinctively yours.
I congratulate Katherine for developing
such a wonderful tool for kids and caregivers and I can't recommend it highly enough! The Memory
Maker has been developed for kids 4-14, although mom and dad will probably have to
lend a hand to the younger ages. Ideally, it's designed for the kids who see the changes
and need to talk about them.
If you'd like to know more about the
books I encourage you to visit Katherine's website. There you'll be able to see how Memory
Maker was created and get some additional tips on how it can be used. Just click on
her website button below and venture through an extraordinary way of dealing with
Alzheimer's.
I shared your book with my office mates. We think
you've tackled a huge area very well. There is so little out there for kids, and almost
nothing that addresses their negative emotions about their aging loved ones.
You've done a wonderful job of explaining, and of
encouraging kids to express themselves. I have no doubt that you will find much interest
in your books. Congratulations on your accomplishment. Bravo!
-- Nancy Speed, M.D., Central Coast Psychiatric Consultants
